What We're Looking at Here

What is emerging is on the one hand you have people that have been identified as having been discriminated against and in the extreme is people who discriminate.  And then there's this group that that group just really, it isn't always so much that they are specific about who is supposed to receive the discrimination, but almost always they clearly seem to care less about how what they say will be received and the feelings of the group already mentioned.   This activity is so much more effective at hurting people than outright alienating them that it's like hurt feelings is the objective; but why?  The discrimination seems not to be as much the goal as does the large scale disheartening of people who have been identified as having been discriminated against.